求一篇关于“大学校园恋爱/网恋 (cyber love)”的英文作文，谢谢了~~~

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In the midst of the internet era, online romance has been widely practiced and shows no sign of going out of fashion. “Cyber love”, if in fact it deserves such a name, is a kind of fantastic and dramatic thing to those who have addicted themselves to it. From the brilliant previous essays titled “solicit articles”, it seems to me that a multitude of us are setting their affections on so-called “romances”, wishing their online partners could become their eternal beloved ones. For some time, I had been absorbed and deeply touched by their stories that I almost compromised my own standpoint. However, I must forego that sensation, compelling my sense to get the better of emotions.

As was expected, I ought to present an argument on how absurd that kind of “love” is and how risky to get whole-heartedly involved in it. But, allowing for those with the devotion to it, and for fear of being too absolute yet lacking objectivity, I do not intend to criticize anybody but myself, whom I never feel reluctant or afraid to tear apart. Now that the debate is no longer like a debate (the majority of us have transformed their argument into delicate prose—lyrical debates if I may call them that), in what follows, I am venturing to share some of my stories.

Hardly can anyone be more entitled to give a sensible review than those who have experienced a matter-of-fact online relationship. Last year, shortly after breaking up with my boyfriend, I met the guy who later became my cyber-lover. He appeared so tender and thoughtful then, soothing my broken heart while talking in his habitually intimate, breezy way. I was a dreamy one. At that time, I deemed myself the luckiest in the whole world. To me, he was a wonderful person: intelligent, creative and humorous as well.

The admiration for him, however, did not help but threw st in my eyes. Only until it was too late did I realize how much time and energy I had wasted. What is still more important, something ignoble in his nature became increasingly manifest—something defying definition but making me displeased. After a series of unpleasant happenings, I knew it was time for me and him to say goodbye.

It doesn’t bring me much regret in recalling the experience. The lesson I have learned from it is that we shouldn’t count on any romance on the internet to be rational or everlasting—just like what we’d better not do in the real world. But unlike the real world, the internet community enables people to shroud themselves behind a veil, making those typed word the reflection of only a fraction of their personalities. You may speak insincerely to others without being found out-- but vice versa.

Life is not like a storytelling photoplay. Mostly, nothing can be more truthful or credible than our own taste. We know through experience that true love cannot be obtained effortlessly or instantly, then why do we abandon our beliefs and boundaries, dreaming of an unpredictable “cyber love” in an illusive society? The superficies don’t always justify the essence—this is where the rub is.